Hello~ welcome to my first blog post~. I don't really feel it's a good time to introduce myself, so I'll just jump right in.
First, we're going to discuss one common problem with people of all ages; talking behind your back.
The first thing I'd like to cover is that whatever they say, do not let it change your opinion of yourself, no matter how harsh they were being. No one should ever make you change your opinion of how you are, just because they said something that may make you feel like you don't belong.
At this point, you have two choices of what you can do. You can either ignore it, and go your own way from that person, or you can confront them and tell them to stop. Most people, at this stage would ignore it, and there's nothing wrong with that. Eventually people will stop talking about you and move onto different things, then everyone will forget what happened after a short while. Everyone matures in time, after all. But if you choose to confront the person, be very careful. One thing that should be avoided is creating a rivalry. Rivalries can lead to only giving you more stress and anger than was originally anticipated. Talk things through carefully with your "attacker" and make sure to remain calm during confrontation. If you loose your cool, and go off on a blind fury, then they'll just have more rumors to spread about you. Explain how you feel to them when they're alone. When they're in a group they may be more prone to joking with their friends and making you feel worse. If they continue to talk about you after you talked to them, tell someone who can help you get them to stop. If that doesn't work either, they should stop soon enough.
things will always get better in time, and you can always look forward to tomorrow. Don't loose hope, and be sure to hang in there~
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